You’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t! Do what you want.

If you say yes, some will like it, some won’t.

If you say no, some will like it, some won’t.

If you do, some will like it, some won’t.

If you don’t, some will like it, some won’t.

If you agree, some will like it, some won’t.

If you disagree, some will like it, some won’t.

My point is, You’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t. It is super extremely rare, not going to happen, unrealistic, impractical, basically impossible, yes I just said all of that lol together to emphasize the fact that you can’t make everyone happy. Do what you see fit. Anyone who doesn’t like it needs to get off of their asses and put themselves into the position where they can do something, instead of dictating and commenting about what someone is trying to do. 

Everyone is not going to agree with everyone and/or everything. You can’t please everyone, you can’t make everyone happy.  So stop trying! It is so frustrating and annoying that the same people who are doing nothing are the ones who have the most to say. Or it is the ones who are doing something, but they are trying to please everyone. As I stated before, it is impossible to please everyone.

When dealing with situations, discussions, issues whatever it is, you have to take all of the details into consideration. Some things, well most things, there is no 100% correct right or wrong answer. Sometimes it’s just about a matter of perspective, opinion, what you think is best. Why? Because everyone will not agree most of the time.

There will always be two sides to every topic or discussion. Those that agree and those who disagree. And to that I say,

You are damned if you do, and you are damned if you don’t. Do what is best for YOU! Don’t try to please everyone, because it is impossible.                                                                    -Andre’a Daniels

 They tell you to do this, they tell you to do that. What you do or don’t do is up to you. What you do or don’t do is your choice.  If you do what your heart tells you to do then you will be pleasing you. If you do what they tell you to do, you will be pleasing them. 

So with that, I ask you two questions. What are you going to decide? Whatever you decide to do will it make you happy, make you feel good about it? Because ultimately, you have to live with your choice. 

Just remember this, 

You’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t!

*As I always say… These are just my thoughts! Because I am… Just me, MsDraya!

Sending lots of love and positivity! 

MsDraya! 😘

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Who am I? I am a women on a mission to help make the world a better place one blog at a time. With so much hate going on in the world, somebody has to change the narrative. So hey I will take the initiative and start the change we need to see in the world.

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