Ok, so you have spent your entire life caring about what someone else has to say. So let me ask you this, where did it get you? Nowhere!
You stopped dreaming, you let go of your goals, you just stopped a whole lot of things all because you care about what someone has to say about you? Hmm interesting! Why give someone that much power?
As someone who use to care, let me tell you this. No matter what you do in your life, good, bad or indifferent, someone is going to have something to say. They are praying for your downfall. Their job is to make others just as miserable as they are. When you give in to them, you motivate them to keep knocking you and others down. Let them talk but, ignore them!
Let me ask you this, The people doing all the talking, what are they doing for themselves? They can’t be doing any good because they have time to negative talk you, they have time to worry about other people. I can’t speak for everyone but I’m pretty sure that people who have something going on for themselves have no time to negative talk, or discourage anyone else. People who have shit going on only want to build with others doing something. So with that being said whose opinion should you value more, the person doing something, or the person doing nothing?
At this point in my life, I could give a damn about what anybody has to say about me. If you don’t pay my bills, leave me alone. If you don’t feed me, leave me alone. If you don’t support me, leave me alone. If you don’t extend an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on, leave me alone. If you are always negative, leave me alone. I don’t care about negativity, it only motivates me!
All I want to do is succeed for me, my family and those around. I just want to accomplish every goal and follow my dreams. At this point in my life, I really don’t care what people have to say negatively about me, and you shouldn’t either!
In the most unselfish way, CARE LESS, DO MORE! You have to stop caring about what others have to say, and do more for you!
As I always say… These are just my thoughts because I am, Just me, MsDraya!